A great venue is not the prettiest one on the tour. It is the one with a ceiling you can rig from, a load-in that does not run through the guest entrance, power where you need it, and a west-facing aperture that gives you thirty usable minutes of light.

We look first at the ceiling. Fixed rigging points decide whether a floral installation costs four thousand dollars or fourteen. Venues that permit truss and hang points quietly subsidise your entire design.

Second, load-in. A dock at grade with a straight run to the room is worth more than a courtyard fountain. Every stair, elevator and tight corner is labour hours, and labour hours are the least glamorous way to spend a budget.

A venue with good bones saves more budget than any decor line you could cut.

Third, light. We want to know where the sun sits at the ceremony hour on the actual date — not in general. An east-facing terrace that is perfect in November is unusable in June.

The five rooms we return to most are all unremarkable in photographs and excellent in practice: a Design District gallery with a full grid, a Coral Gables courtyard with real shade, a Coconut Grove boathouse, a Downtown loft with freight at grade, and a Keys property that permits overnight build. We will name them in person — some of the appeal is that they are not yet on every list.

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